I was sitting on a seat. Woman was coming and then standing in front of me. With little courageous, I said to her "Would you like to have a seat?" And, I gave up my seat to her... because she is attractive or I'm a gentleman. No, just because she looked like pregnant! And, I sat on an inappropriate space. What I am talking about now is "priority seats." The priority seats are set up for those who are disabled, pregnant, or having babies to have a seat easily. (In Japan, a subway line have conducted a policy that all seats are priority seats...Even more, they are right now considering about making the most priority seats on the priority seats. What a mess...)
Japanese sign for priority seats on trains
Just in case you really want to get a seat, Try out the following way. In China, there are 1.3 billion people living. According to some article, to get a seat on public transportation, some women wear a fake pregnant belly! Wow!
I traveled Taipei, Taiwan in last weekend. And, I got a lot of tasty food and drinks there. Bubble teas are one of the famous drinks from Taiwan, I think. Of course I had them during the visit, but I had some difficulty when ordering them. See below!
As shown in the picture, so many choices there are!! In mind, "How can I choose?" Even I thought I'd like someone to choose a great one! However, the staff seemed busy and even I can't speak in Taiwanese. As a result, I needed to choose by myself... What would you choose when you are facing such a situation?
Recently what I learned is that when facing too many choices we tend not to buy the item, according to a jam experiment by Sheena Iyengar. But, in my case, I really wanted to drink a bubble tea, so I chose one. That is, I didn't have the choice of not buying it. So, the problem is how I picked it. I think that we would follow two patterns under this circumstance; cautious or risky choice (I can't find any research of this related topic, so to describe the phenomena I borrow these terms usually used in the group think). The cautious choice means a tendency we choose ordinary, familiar, and safe one which we have already had or seen. On the other hand, I use risky choice to describe that we are likely to pick one which we have never had or even heard and seen. When I chose one, I was considering apricot kernel (cautious) or 養楽多 (risky) flavor (*養楽多 is Yakult, although I didn't know at that time. In fact, Yakult is a drink made by a famous Japanese company).
Well, eventually, I got the apricot kernel bubble tea. It's not provocative but tasted good! Although maybe it could be good, at that moment the Yakult one seemed to me mysterious and strange. Anyway, Taipei is a good place to visit. If you have time, go there. And, if you have an opportunity to visit Taipei, try to buy Bubble teas!
Last weekend, I went to a friend's house to be invited dinner. Her father was there at that time. Although I've met him a few times, I didn't know he likes wines and he was kind of enthusiast on them as much as collects them from all over the world. And, I drunk a bottle of wine which he recommended. It was fantastic, and tasted and smelled like what I've never had. However, I unfortunately do not have good abilities to remember that taste and smell for a long time. Actually, next day I already forgot what it tasted and smelled like, though I'm sorry for him.
The same thing happens in the music. Probably most people have heard of the name, Stradivari who is known as a great violin maker. His violin has been acknowledged the greatest and the most expensive one all over the world.
Fortunately, I would have musician's ears, which means I was able to pick correct one! It seems like hearing something is good fit for me rather than tasting and smelling.
I'm a big fan of baseball, though, I would not mention it if visiting the UK. In the UK, I would pretend to like playing football. This comes from a result of the Books Ngram Viewers by Google. If you are wondering what Ngram Viewers is, see the following talk!
I tried several words in the Ngram, and then I found something interest by a combination of terms of sports. Here is my example:
English
I chose five sports for this analysis; (1) Baseball, (2) Football, (3) Tennis, (4) Golf, and (5) Cricket. At first, I picked several other sports like polo (I think this word is used not only for describing a sport but also for other meanings like polo shirts), wrestling, swimming, basketball, hockey and so on. But, I thought the five sports which I picked are interesting because of having well variations. At 2000, Baseball is the most frequently used in the above graph! Yeah! However, as you can guess, when this result falls into American and British English, ...
American English
British English
In the American English, Golf was the most popular for writers to mention during the early twentieth century. Also, before baseball was a popular sport in the US, cricket was in style in the late nineteenth century. It's surprising for me! Of course, cricket has been popular in the UK (+India) as shown in the British English, while baseball has been the worst attractive for writers who use British English.
One more thing I want to state here is the influence of wars on sports. Even my graphs show the evidence that less frequent words regarding sports were mentioned during the wars such as WWI, WWII, and Vietnam War. In particular, compared the American to British graph at 1960, there is a big difference. For example, tennis indicates the opposite trend between the American and British. My explanation for it is that Vietnam War has something to do with the trend because US involvement to the war escalated in the early 1960s and also there was Cuban Missile Crisis in 1962.
In Japan, there is no Turkey Day. My dinner will be white rice, miso soup, tuna (Japanese national fish? Maybe!), plus something. Well, If I had thanksgiving dinner, I would like to eat mash potatoes with a gravy sauce rather than turkeys. Anyway, have a good time!
Bobby McFerrin, who is one of the best-known vocal performer, conducts a wonderful impromptu performance below.
Some people who are singing in the video sound like little off-key at first, but they gradually adjust their key. Eventually, they create a beautiful harmony between them and Bobby.
"Honne and Tatemae" is a famous word to describe Japanese culture. Honne is what people are truly feeling or really want to do. It is usually used for behavior and opinions. On the other hand, Tatemae refers to socially expected behavior and opinions, regardless of what the people actually think about and want to do. For instance, suppose you are invited to a neighbor's house, and the host says "Would you like to something to drink?" If you are Japanese, you probably say "yes," even though you are not thirsty (If you were like me, you would finish the drink and even say "it's delicious," regardless of whether it's really good or "not good..." ). This "yes" is known as Tatemae.
The reason the Japanese start using this custom is to avoid conflicts. In Japan, it is important to keep harmony among people, and harmony is assumed as a value.
Zits published November 4, 2011
Well, Honne and Tatemae looks like, however, not only for the Japanese, but also for everybody in the world. Zits shows a very well example of Honne and Tatemae. In the above comic strip, Jeremy (who is sixteen years old, a high school student, and wants to become a musician) tells his mother to thank-you for buying a new down jacket in the first and second scene. However, in the last scene, he is thinking "...said the giant purple hand grenade." It seems that his thought may be "Honne," while his thank-you and comment to his mother may be "Tatemae".
If you avoid conflicts, saying Tatemae might be good. If not, say Honne!
